[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.stox.sk\/tieto-styri-vety-pred-detmi-radsej-nehovorte\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.stox.sk\/tieto-styri-vety-pred-detmi-radsej-nehovorte\/","headline":"Tieto \u0161tyri vety pred de\u0165mi rad\u0161ej nehovorte","name":"Tieto \u0161tyri vety pred de\u0165mi rad\u0161ej nehovorte","description":"Z\u00a0teenegersk\u00fdch \u010dias si ur\u010dite ka\u017ed\u00fd z\u00a0n\u00e1s pam\u00e4t\u00e1 na slov\u00e1 a\u00a0argumenty rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1s vyt\u00e1\u010dali. S\u00fa v\u00e1s v\u0161ak zakorenen\u00e9 tak silno, \u017ee ich podvedome za\u010d\u00edname pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 aj pri v\u00fdchove na\u0161ich det\u00ed. Ktor\u00e9 to s\u00fa? Mus\u00ed\u0161 sa u\u010di\u0165, aby z\u00a0teba nie\u010do bolo T\u00e1to veta pokojne hovor\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161mu die\u0165a\u0165u, \u017ee z\u00a0neho nie je zatia\u013e ni\u010d. Je potrebn\u00e9 upozor\u0148ova\u0165 deti na to, \u017ee v\u00a0\u017eivote … ","datePublished":"2018-12-28","dateModified":"2018-12-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.stox.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.stox.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/cbcb92d2d459f60d1dc08d6e5973c6b0ed1017e8a3b51da0599e03841cfa81e6?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/cbcb92d2d459f60d1dc08d6e5973c6b0ed1017e8a3b51da0599e03841cfa81e6?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"stox.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.stox.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a297525_w16802_t1551371062.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.stox.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a297525_w16802_t1551371062.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.stox.sk\/tieto-styri-vety-pred-detmi-radsej-nehovorte\/","wordCount":430,"articleBody":"Z\u00a0teenegersk\u00fdch \u010dias si ur\u010dite ka\u017ed\u00fd z\u00a0n\u00e1s pam\u00e4t\u00e1 na slov\u00e1 a\u00a0argumenty rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1s vyt\u00e1\u010dali. S\u00fa v\u00e1s v\u0161ak zakorenen\u00e9 tak silno, \u017ee ich podvedome za\u010d\u00edname pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 aj pri v\u00fdchove na\u0161ich det\u00ed. Ktor\u00e9 to s\u00fa?\t\tMus\u00ed\u0161 sa u\u010di\u0165, aby z\u00a0teba nie\u010do boloT\u00e1to veta pokojne hovor\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161mu die\u0165a\u0165u, \u017ee z\u00a0neho nie je zatia\u013e ni\u010d. Je potrebn\u00e9 upozor\u0148ova\u0165 deti na to, \u017ee v\u00a0\u017eivote je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 sa niekam pos\u00fava\u0165. Av\u0161ak dehonestova\u0165 jeho v\u00fdznam je ve\u013ekou chybou. Va\u0161e die\u0165a toti\u017e u\u017e niek\u00fdm je. Tak ako vychov\u00e1vate vy jeho, aj ono v\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee do \u017eivota ve\u013ea da\u0165. Vn\u00edmajte preto va\u0161e die\u0165a ako rovnocenn\u00e9ho partnera.\t\tPreto\u017ee som to povedal\u010castokr\u00e1t vn\u00edmame ot\u00e1zky die\u0165a\u0165a ako provok\u00e1ciu, preto ho rad\u0161ej odbijeme vetou : preto\u017ee som to povedal. Zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 men\u0161ie deti v\u0161ak potrebuj\u00fa na v\u0161etko vysvetlenie. Neu\u010dme ich preto odmali\u010dka slepo nasledova\u0165 autority. Aj rodina je miestom, kde m\u00e1 ma\u0165 miesto otvoren\u00fd dial\u00f3g. Verte, \u017ee pokojn\u00e9 vysvet\u013eovanie toho, pre\u010do je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ma\u0165 upratan\u00fa izbu m\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00ed \u00fa\u010dinok ako odbitie detsk\u00fdch ot\u00e1zok. Nechajte poveda\u0165 die\u0165a jeho n\u00e1zor, po\u010d\u00favajte ho. Trvajte v\u0161ak na tom, aby aj die\u0165a pozorne po\u010d\u00favalo to, \u010do mu vysvet\u013eujete vy. Len tak mu v\u0161tep\u00edte hodnoty.3.Nezavadzaj tu. Rad\u0161ej sa cho\u010f hra\u0165 do svojej izbyZvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 men\u0161ie deti pri dom\u00e1cich pr\u00e1cach viac zavadzaj\u00fa ako re\u00e1lne pom\u00e1haj\u00fa. Nikdy v\u0161ak die\u0165a od nich nevyh\u00e1\u0148ajte. Riskujete to, \u017ee na pomoc pri dom\u00e1cich pr\u00e1cach r\u00fdchlo zanevrie.\t\tLebo medve\u010f \u010eal\u0161ou ve\u013ekou chybou je, \u017ee ve\u013eakr\u00e1t pri v\u00fdchove det\u00ed vyu\u017e\u00edvame dospel\u00e1cky humor. Die\u0165a v\u0161ak nem\u00e1 potrebn\u00e9 znalosti na to, aby tento druh humoru dok\u00e1zalo de\u0161ifrova\u0165 a\u00a0u\u017e v\u00f4bec nebude ch\u00e1pa\u0165, pre\u010d sa na tom smejete. Nikdy nezab\u00fadajte na to, \u017ee mal\u00e9 deti ber\u00fa v\u0161etko doslovne, tak netr\u00e1pme ich hlavi\u010dky dlh\u00fdm duman\u00edm nad t\u00fdm, pre\u010do medve\u010f nem\u00e1 zips.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 V\u0161etci rob\u00edme chyby, pri v\u00fdchove det\u00ed to v\u0161ak m\u00f4\u017ee ma\u0165 nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky. Ak niektor\u00e9 z\u00a0t\u00fdchto viet hovor\u00edte de\u0165om pr\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto, nemajte strach, v\u0161etko sa d\u00e1 napravi\u0165. 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